Thursday, February 25, 2016

MTC - Week Seven

We hung up a hammock. It's a two person hammock so me and
Sister Apsley tried to get in at the same time and the bed
almost fell on top of us. Probably wasn't the best idea lol 
7 Is my lucky number

I AM ALMOST OUT OF THE MTC yesss (but also like wait noooo what. But mostly yessss)

Missions are hard for multiple reasons, but one is that since you leave your family, you create your own little family here. Then they leave, or you have to leave them. When will the heartbreaking goodbyes end? NEVER. My favorite cantos left this week to Hong Kong. It feels empty without my friends. I love them and their great influences on me. (Yes this includes my sweet friend Elder Caloobanan. Who is going to motivate me to be Queen B now?) 

The weather was super nice some days, than other days it was snowing. But while it was warm we took advantage of it and read The Book of Mormon outside. It was fun!

So we are skyping members from Taiwan for trc. it is so fun!!! We taught someone named Willy. We are going to be life long friends. When we were telling him about ourselves I told him I play soccer. He got so excited and said he he always wanted to play, so I am going to teach him when I get to Taiwan, he's pretty pumped. I also said I was from Lehi, awesome in chinese is lihai. So he just kept telling me I was awesome. He quickly became our friend. Our lesson was on how to receive personal revelation through prayer. So we were giving him some suggestions I said "pray to have help to stay away from temptations so you can have the Holy Ghost with you." I said the wrong tones on "temptations" so he just broke out laughing and said "I thought you were said 'on fire'!!" I've had many mistakes like this lol, for example one time I said The Book of Mormon was gods child. and when saying Joseph Smith's first vision if you say beloved with the wrong tone it can mean midget. So I've accidently said "this is my midget son, hear him." This is pretty much my life. Anyway I told Willy God loved him, he then made a heart with his hands then pointed up to heaven hahaha. There are so many things he did and said that were hilarious. When we asked if we could end the lesson with a prayer he said no, because he wanted us to keep teaching him. He took a picture of us, which is funny cause it's not the first time that has happened to me and Sister Menzie. There was this elder that would always try to speak chinese to me and he would slaughter it. But the day before he left he asked if he could take a picture of me and Sister Menzie to remember us. I thought he was going to get a picture with us, but no. He literally just took a picture of us. hahaha 

On Tuesday we had Rosemary M. Wixom speak. She's the primary president. So for choir we had all of the mtc presidents grandchildren join us in singing A Child's Prayer. I love that song, and the spirit was so strong. Every song we sang was from the primary children's book. Like, I hope they call me on a mission, search ponder and pray, and I belong to the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints. Love love love primary songs.  I miss teaching primary and I hope I can work with little kids in the future. I also got a package from some primary children in my ward and I was so happy :-) :')

WE GOT OUR CHINESE NAME TAGS WHAT 
Sister Money got her flight plans on Friday! We get ours in TWO DAYS 

I only have 13 days left in the mtc soooo if you want to send me some packages, letters, or dear elders before it gets more expensive and takes forever feel free ;)

This week I've been thinking a lot about why Heavenly Father gives us weaknesses. The reason for weaknesses is so that we can come closer to Christ and his Atonement. We should all accept Christ's Invitation to come to him. Then we can see the Atonement's influence on our weaknesses. I know that the Lord wants to help us overcome sin. He wants to provide comfort and peace when we face trials, struggles, or challenges. He wants to be a part of our lives by helping us become strong through our weaknesses.
Either 12:27 "And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then I will make weak things become strong unto them." 
I know He lives, and that it is through faith, following His example, and through His Atonement we can return to our Heavenly Father.

Have a good week! 

Love, Sister Scharman


Our outdoor reading session. We tried to read in the most 
"asian voice" we could hahaha. Love these girls.

Me and Sister Menzie walked into a classroom
and this was someone's investigator lol

You know I referenced a One Direction song
in my Book of Mormon. 


Saturday, February 20, 2016

MTC - Week Six



This week I just want to tell everyone how grateful I am for my companion Sister Menzie. She is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. And she has helped me in so many different ways. I know that we are companions for a reason, and it makes me sad that we have less than three weeks left together.

Yesterday during companion study, we were discussing the atonement. Throughout my life I have always had a testimony about it. But this past week my love for the Savior's atoning sacrifice has grown more than I could have ever imagined. Christ atoned for our sins. He bled from every pore, he suffered all the pains, afflictions, and emotions that we feel each day. When we feel alone and afraid, wracked with guilt and torment, when we experience sorrows beyond belief, the Savior, our loving brother, is ALWAYS there. He is constantly watching us, weeping for us and with us. It's hard to face these all too familiar feelings, but it is our job and our blessing to be able to reach out, call out, and cry out for our Savior to help us through them. He will never make us feel weak and inadequate. He helps lift us up to heights we've never imagined. In our darkest, most terrifying moments where we just feel utterly alone, Christ is the light that guides us back. There is always hope when we have faith in Christ and when we have faith that his atonement wasn't just some nice gesture of love. The atonement was literally the hardest thing the Savior had to go through. It was so hard that he cried out to God, asking him to take the cup from him. Yet, being the perfect example of who we should strive to be like, he said "not my will, but thine be done." In order to access the atonement in the fullest way possible, we must recognize that our will is not the same as God's. We are faced with these tormenting emotions and we make these bad decisions because we have agency and because God knows he can make us better people through them. We develop our testimony and we grow closer to our Savior and his loving example as we truly utilize the atonement and trust in the Lord. Trust that he has a perfect plan for us to do great things in his kingdom. I love the atonement. I love the comfort, peace, and gratitude I feel towards God for allowing me to know that someone else knows my exact feelings. I know that it is through my Savior that I can return to Heavenly Father again. I love my Savior and his perfect example. I've let him down so many times in my life, but no matter what, I know he will never let me down. 

This is all I'm going to write this week. I love you all, and I'm grateful for all the support, and kind words that have been sent my way. 


Love, Sister Scharman

Sister Scharman got to see her friend Sister Turner on PDay!
They are having fun as usual when they are together :D

Thursday, February 11, 2016

MTC - Week Five

Hey friends!

If you haven't heard there was an earthquake in Taiwan this past week. Please pray for them.

Learning Mandarin is the hardest thing for me here. I'm constantly having to remind myself to not compare myself to others. It's hard. I'm a little stressed because I have less time left here in the mtc then I have been here for and I still have lots to learn. I shared my testimony in sacrament meeting in all Chinese and I know I made sense because cute Sister Dung was nodding at everything I said hahaha. Everyone is saying that I will learn most of my Chinese when I get to Taiwan so that gives me some hope. During language study the scene from Pink Panther popped into my head when Steve Martin is trying to say hamburger. That's me with basically every Chinese word lol.

 (Steve Martin - Pink Panther "I want to buy a Hamburger)



My teacher Gwo Laoshi shared her conversion story with us. It was amazing and even after we left the classroom to go to our residence for the little 8 hour nap we get each night, I couldn't stop crying. Maybe it was a little pathetic how much I cried lol but she is AMAZING.  

Fast Sunday was great! fei chang zhufu (very blessed) except choir was cancelled :( but we did get to sing on Tuesday and the camera zoomed in on mine and Sister Menzies faces. We are considered MTC famous now so that's cool. Oh and we found out we are getting 7 more elders and 3 more sisters. Fun!! 

Me and Sister Menzie got addicted to Two Brothers Two this week. It's a LDS video series that is amazing. We would watch it every spare moment we could. It is so relatable and it's so cool to watch the different experiences they had. I would suggest watching it. 

There is an Australian Polynesian Sister here that we have become friends with. She calls us her "white family" and pretends to speak chinese to us by making little noises hahaha its hilarious. One night we were helping a sister pack in the hall and she came and sat by us. She was so fascinated by the puff cheetos.

Saying of the week: #beizhufu 
I love the gospel!! Have a good week!!
Love, Sister Scharman


Wednesday, February 3, 2016

MTC - 1 MONTH!

The Zone grew by 8 Elders and 11 Sisters
It's already February? Where is the time going? I've been here for exactly a month! This week was probably one of the best that I've had so far. Don't get me wrong it wasn't easy at all. Its' definitely hard, but I'm good!! I've had so many spiritual experiences it's insane. I wish I could describe them all to you!! I don't really feel like I know a whole lot but I have to remember where I started.

Last Wednesday we met all of the new elders and sisters in our zone, and gave them a tour of the MTC. One elder is 6'7" and it makes me feel like a midget. Me and Sister Menzie got to interview all of the girls and it was a little overwhelming,  but they are all amazing!!! They all tell me they can't wait to be at the point I am, which is weird to me because I feel like I still know nothing, but I really do know a lot and I have learned more than I think. Chinese grammar is so different than English grammar so it's hard to create sentences off of the top of my head. But I'm getting better each day!


On Sunday my district preformed a musical number. We sang Nearer My God to Thee. The first verse we did in English then the next two were in Chinese. We sounded so good! I've never sang so much in my life. That's all me and my friends do. From Disney music to My Girl by Temptations and everything in between.  We sing church music too don't worry. Also choir saves my life. The choir director is amazing. Last week he showed us clips of The Other Side of Heaven. And now I just want to watch that movie, and the best two years. We got to watch the movie Legacy. Probably the closest thing I will get to a chick flick for a year and a half. Everyone clapped and screamed every time at the kissing scenes. lol. I even cried at the part he had to leave and go on a mission. The feels. 

My lessons went super well for me this week with my two investigators. Amin is committed to get baptized in March!! When we left the room I jumped and screamed. I was excited. We are now just working her towards that, and trying to get her husband and 7 year old daughter to come to our lessons. Chen is a different story, so we've been teaching him for about two weeks now. And we are still trying to get him to have a desire to know God. We had such a good lesson where we read the Book of Mormon with him. We read Alma 22 where King Lamoni's father is taught by Ammon and prays to know if God is there. Chen said he could read the Book of Mormon and understand it, but that it doesn't do anything for him cause he doesn't have a desire to know God like Lamoni's father did. I love the story of King Lamoni's father and I'm kicking myself that I didn't just flip to Alma 20 and show him that the king didn't have a desire at first. It's so hard to express myself in Chinese. He also said "my life would be good with the gospel, and my life would also be good without it." I was talking to one of the teachers Liao Laoshi  (Liao is his name - Laoshi means Teacher) about Chen (probably the funniest Asian teacher here, and there are a lot). He said "He's so close! He's on the edge of the baptismal font and you just have to PUSH HIM!" hahaha I wish it was that easy.

Also another thing about Liao Laoshi, we were asking him what we could do for Chinese New Year and he said "I partied in the mtc all the time, you should be obedient missionaries" and that's it. He says a ton of funny things but I'll only share one more. We were asking him about his mission, (he went to France) he said he loved it but he would not want to go back. He then said, "do you think if you asked Jesus to do the atonement again, he would say yes? No! he would say "heck naaaaw!!" hahaha just imagine this in a Asian accent. He is the greatest.  

I seriously have the BEST teachers. Li Laoshi is the most in tune with the spirit guy I've ever met. He is helping me so much not just with Chinese, but with life in general. Dodge Laoshi asked me and Sister Menzie to help teach his class, super fun. I wish I could hug all  my teachers. Maybe I will right before I leave the MTC. Just don't tell on me. 

Temple Walk Selfie Time
Update on Sister A's sleeping episodes. In Sister M's words.. "I woke up to Sister A going down the ladder, then going to her closet and start pulling out all her clothes. I just watched her cause I was so tired, confused, and it was three in the morning. Then she just layed down on her clothes and fell asleep" Sister C then woke up and turned on the light to see what was going on. That's what woke me up. Sister A then told us that in her dream she was late to her train and had to pack. We laughed then went back to bed. In the morning Sister A saw her clothes that were still on the ground and said "Are those my clothes?" SHE DIDN'T REMEMBER AGAIN HAHAHAHA 
This is what you get when two selfie sticks are being used at the same time!

















More about Elder Coloobanan, the one who gives us candy. During gym time he motivates me by saying "DO YOU WANNA BE QUEEN B" he is currently sitting next to me emailing as well. 
Elder Coloobanan

I am so sick of the food here, I just have a soup for lunch and dinner pretty much. They did have steak on Sunday and that was awesome. The food here makes me want to eat the food in Taiwan. I can't wait to be there!! I got to watch my sister training leaders arriving in the video on the Taiwan Taipei blog. Wish it was me, but I'm not ready yet cause I need to learn more.

I want to share a little bit of my testimony. If you're familiar with the story of the Brother of Jared you know that he got some stones and God touched them and made them give light. That's obviously the simple version. But as hard as the brother of Jared worked to get those stones, nothing came from of them until he brought them to the lord. Relating this to me, I could work as hard as I can at learning this language. But I will never be able to learn it like I need too unless I work with the Lord by praying and inviting the Holy Ghost. "Two people can do anything, as long as one of them is the Lord."

Ether 6:6-7 
6 And it came to pass that they were many times buried in the depths of the sea, because of the mountain waves which broke upon them, and also the great and terrible tempests which were caused by the fierceness of the wind.
7 And it came to pass that when they were buried in the deep there was no water that could hurt them, their vessels being tight like unto a dish, and also they were tight like unto the ark of Noah; therefore when they were encompassed about by the many waters they did cry unto the Lord, and he did bring them for again upon the top of the waters. 

We all have struggles, trials, and challenges that we need to overcome. When you are buried by the waters take your problems to the lord. Humble yourselves. We can't do anything without the Lord. He will bring you again upon the top of the waters.

Love you guys, have a great week! The church is TRUE!
Sister Nicole Scharman

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

MTC - Week Three


President and Sister Teng with Sister Scharman, Sister Menzie, Sister C and Sister A


Hey! 

So this week we lost the other district in our zone, and I'm so sad. We became so close and now it feels empty without them! But we found out we are getting 19 new people today!! What! 8 elders and 11 sisters, and as sister training leader I have to interview all of them so I can report back to President Teng, I'm going to be super busy. So fun!! I am super excited to meet them tonight! I get to show them around the MTC like a tour guide, but the problem is I still get lost a lil and I've been here three weeks. We also had another sister move into our room, her name is Sister Money. She was here in the MTC before but had to go home to get surgery. Now she is back! Her, Sister Clawson and Sister Apsley are now in a three some. She seems nice, I've known her for about a solid hour. Last night we stayed up till 11:30 (I know breaking rules but the lord knows we were doing service) we decorated all the new girls doors with dresses we made out of paper. Origami is a fun activity here in the mtc haha 

Sister Menzie and I have taught 11 lessons in the past week, no wonder they call it a training center. We had TRC for the first time on saturday. (that's where we meet with real members and teach them) besides my mandarin being bad, it went pretty good! the first guy we taught knew my aunt, so yeah fun. When we were teaching Amin (one of our investigators) about families and how they can be together forever we showed her pictures of our families. She loved it! She commented on how tall Ryan was, that made me think about how tall Tyler is going to get when I'm gone and that makes me sad.  

We became friends with the Cantonese District, there is one super short asian elder that gives us a pile of candy everyday hahah he is so cute. And he gives us good candy. Also he cheers me on while I'm running around the track at gym time. What a nice guy.

The funniest compliment that I got this week was from Elder Oreno, he said.. "you are a super cool sister! I bet you're even cooler as a person!!" HAHAHA thanks?

Before Sister Hickenlooper and Sister Bradley left yesterday we had a little party in their room with brownies and cookies. Sister Teng, our branch president's wife, came and partied with us. She is the CUTEST little asian lady I have ever met. She is from Taiwan, even though she's lived here in the US for a long time she still has some troubles with english. She is so funny, and President Teng just sits there and laughs at her. 


I love all my teachers, especially my main teacher Li Laoshi we have some that just come in our class and
President and Sister Teng with their Zone
sit there like Brother Dodge, and Brother Liao. They just sit there and laugh at me, (not just when I'm speaking chinese) apparently I'm pretty funny.

The funniest thing that has happened this week was Sister Apsleys calf cramp.. we all went to bed only to be woken up 45 minutes later by her screaming "OW OW OW OW" it sounded like she was dying seriously. Sister Clawson said she was having a calf cramp so she said "grab your big toe and stretch out your leg and massage it out!" after a second the "ows" stopped. and Sister Apsley said "how did that even work?" then was dead asleep again. The next morning after breakfast we asked her if her leg felt better. Sister Apsley literally looked at us like we were insane. SHE DIDN'T REMEMBER hahahah 
this is probably one of those times where you had to be there to make it funny. She does lots of weird things in her sleep btw 

Only 6 more weeks in the mtc!!!!!

Love,
Sister Scharman 是姐妹



Wednesday, January 20, 2016

MTC - Second Week

Elder Lyman shares his care package


hey guys!! Im alive! 

Okay so me and Sister Menzie got called as sister training leaders!! if you don't know what that is, we are over all the sisters in our zone, which isn't many because two sisters are leaving next week, but then we are getting more!! We don't know how many yet. But i'm super excited!! Everyday seems to be blending in together. I cant believe I'm starting my third week!
Today we had the first worldwide missionary broadcast! It was like general conference for missionaries basically. Its super cool to think that every missionary around the world was watching it too at different times. We heard from three apostles! Super uplifting! 

Our first investigator accepted our invitation to get baptized which is fun! We have two new investigators this week, which ended up being my two teachers hahah we hadn't practiced a door approach yet and well there were some positives but mostly negatives lol I had planned out this whole lesson and learned how to say it, but I never reviewed how to start a conversation at the door so yeah good thing it was my teacher. Our second lesson with our other teacher was hilarious, she was pretending to be married to another teacher and when we asked what their babys name was they looked at each other and said "baby" It probably doesn't that funny but it was okay. 

Chinese is coming, slowly but surely.

 I finally got a dr pepper, seriously a highlight of my week. shout out to Elder Lyman for it. Feel free to send me some if you want ;) it might help me get passed that 3 pm mark where I feel like I'm dying hahaha. Good thing my companion and most of my district are dr pepper lovers. 

I have 7 more weeks in the mtc so my emails will probably be boring and not interesting until I get to Taiwan. 

There is not much to say since we do about the same thing everyday, but I do want to say that the church is true! 


Love Sister Scharman

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

MTC - First Week

First PDay



Hey guys!!

I've officially been in the mtc for a week! how crazy is that? It all just feels like one long continuous day. But I am doing so good!! as you know, or would have guessed, the language is really hard. I am the only one in my district that hasn't had a history with Mandarin Chinese, one Elder even lived in Taiwan for two years. But it's okay!! They are all awesome and they help me a lot. My district is so fun and we all get along super well. My companion is Sister Menzie and she's from Boston. I also love the other sisters, Sister Clawson and Sister Apsley. It's like they are all my companions because we do everything together. I'm blessed with the best! Anyway, the language. I am lots better then when I came 7 days ago so that's good. I know that my district, zone, teachers, family, and my other loved ones believe in me. And most importantly our Heavenly Father and our Savior Jesus Christ believe in me. So I know I can do it! Just gotta rely on the lord!
MTC Breakfast

On the third day of being here, we already had to teach an investigator in alllllll Chinese. Good thing shes actually already a member and teaches Chinese. so basically what I do is write what I want to say in English, then I translate it into Chinese and practice saying it. but the only problem is that I cant understand her hahaha so if she asks me a question or anything I don't know what to do and it's just awkward. I did teach her how to pray and I know how to pray in all Chinese without having to use a paper so I loved doing it. she committed to pray by herself but when I invited her to church she said no. (i only knew she said no because I wrote down some possible answers on the paper and no was one of them lol) 
Lehi Sisters and Elder

Me and Emma aren't even in the same zone. Weird right? I see her often though. I've also seen Hayden, Kenya, Taylor Reece, Jacob Rawle, and an Elder from my institute class at eastern. 
Sunday Temple Walk and Sing










My district thinks I'm popular because I am "always talking to someone and I have so many friends here" if only they knew I was actually a loser lol.

Sundays are the best days!!!!! since we are always in class and never get to be outside except while walking to our classes, I get really excited about our temple walk. We go to the hill behind the temple and we sing hymns with our zone. We sing them in Chinese most of the time, and for a couple of songs, we did half of us singing English and the other Chinese. Super cool! Devotionals here are amazing and the one on Sunday was especially good! We had a devotional last night as well, and it wasn't just a regular one. It was broadcasted to every mtc! Elder Anderson from the quorum of the twelve spoke! his wife also spoke and she was so cute. 

I'm getting sick of the food here. So when I got to go to the temple this morning is was soooo nice to eat breakfast there. 



GUYS I LOVE ASIANS THEY ARE SO CUTE AND I HAVE THE CUTEST ASIAN FRIENDS HERE, I don't love them romantically obviously. Only in like I want to hug them cause they are so cute and nice type of way. Me and Sister Apsley seriously just lose it when we see our friends from Korea THEY ARE SO CUTE 

I know this is long. I am not even going to say all that I want to because of time. but I'm gonna end here real soon.

My sister shared this quote with me before I left. 
"We have moments in life that call upon us to demonstrate courage to say what we really mean and do what we really believe is the right thing to do. even when it is really really difficult these moments are not accidents. they are moments when you are being tapped on the shoulder by God."

I know that this church is true. I know this is where I'm supposed to be. Even though the days are long, nights are sometimes hard, language is difficult and I'm missing loved ones, I can be happy, and I am happy!!! I love this gospel and I'm grateful for this opportunity to share it with others. I want to make this the best experience that I can, so I'm going to give it my all and not get discouraged. love you all! Thank you for all the support! 

Love, Sister Scharman!